Lots of clients have been asking me about Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) recently and how to manage it. A really great book I got recommended was this one, the Declarative Language Handbook by Linda K. Murphy.

It helps you with your strategies in your language to empower your young person to meet the demands of their day. For those with busy schedules, there's also an eBook version which makes it a whole lot more accessible.